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{DOU}Cygnus
(@doucygnus)
Illustrious Member

I've exchanged a few pm's with Lovely since her ejection from DOU. I've tried the best I can to get it accross to her what the issues are concerning her and what I think she should do to changer her behavior so these problems cease.

She flat out wont listen folks. Still the victim, still everyone else's fault but hers.

I'm sorry but she definitely has some serious psychological issues as far as I'm concerned.

I told her she'll still have the right to reapply for membership but I also told her there will be a screening process in place so submitting an application will not guarantee she gets another opportunity at membership.

I also reminded her that if she choses to cause more trouble the next step will be a ban.

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Topic starter Posted : 10/09/2009 2:30 pm
(@douthe-jargonaut)
Noble Member

I am really sad for her. Can you imagine the hell that must be her life? Everyone is out to get you. You have no control of the things happening in your life. It must be miserable.

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Posted : 10/09/2009 6:17 pm
(@dou-yo-mama)
Member Admin

Agreed,

I do not envy her condition but I feel more for the membership having to tolerate all the problems and controversey she has single handedly stirred up. For example those SS idiots.

mAmA

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Posted : 10/09/2009 6:28 pm
 Evil
(@evil)
Noble Member

No surprise there. If the past months and hundreds of talks never got it through to her I'm sure being removed from DOU just made her paranoia really kick in.

She is still playing every night with a different name, it was easy to tell. Particularly when she was teaming with AD later in the night in their same usual spots. She played a little better on some of the maps because we had picked ones she didn't like.

___-SM-___

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Posted : 11/09/2009 3:20 am
(@dou-yo-mama)
Member Admin

I think the voting needs to be changed so that she can't dominate the vote and keep selecting that small handfull of maps she always picks because she usually wins them.

Also we need people to post any time it appears that she and Angry Dad are teaming on a map, or she is breaking other rules. As usual please mention the map and the time EST. If she is going to continue doing what she has been asked to stop, let's document it and not make this take any longer than it needs to.

mAmA

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Posted : 11/09/2009 3:37 am
Tommy
(@tommy)
Member Admin

{DOU} yO mAmA wrote: I think the voting needs to be changed so that she can't dominate the vote and keep selecting that small handfull of maps she always picks because she usually wins them.

Also we need people to post any time it appears that she and Angry Dad are teaming on a map, or she is breaking other rules. As usual please mention the map and the time EST. If she is going to continue doing what she has been asked to stop, let's document it and not make this take any longer than it needs to.

mAmA

Just force a map change anytime it is appropriate to do so.

She must be in hell now feeling all empty inside. She pretty much lived here.

T

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Posted : 11/09/2009 3:41 am
(@abberation)
Noble Member

Personally after tonight Im convinced a perma ban would have been the way to go. Tommy, Wave, Concrete, Shoot2kill and I were all on when she was playing as SAM. And more than a handful of times did she assault and revenge. People said pointed it out but it didnt stop. She will never stop and her cancerous playing will spread to new players.

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Posted : 11/09/2009 6:17 am
(@dou-yo-mama)
Member Admin

Did you note the time and the map Abb ?

We need to document whenever she missbehaves to establish a pattern ( or a continued one) of abusing the server rules.

mAmA

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Posted : 11/09/2009 3:09 pm
(@darkmatter)
Member Admin

Abberation wrote: Personally after tonight Im convinced a perma ban would have been the way to go. Tommy, Wave, Concrete, Shoot2kill and I were all on when she was playing as SAM. And more than a handful of times did she assault and revenge. People said pointed it out but it didnt stop. She will never stop and her cancerous playing will spread to new players.

Did any of you actually Say anything to let her know what she was doing and that you saw it ????

-------------------o00o---Β°(_)Β°---o00o----------------------

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Posted : 11/09/2009 4:24 pm
.::/3IΒ§ON::.
(@3ion)
Member Admin

Sam is on the server now w/lovelys IP...

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Posted : 11/09/2009 4:41 pm
(@concrete)
Honorable Member

*DARKMATTER* wrote: [quote=Abberation]Personally after tonight Im convinced a perma ban would have been the way to go. Tommy, Wave, Concrete, Shoot2kill and I were all on when she was playing as SAM. And more than a handful of times did she assault and revenge. People said pointed it out but it didnt stop. She will never stop and her cancerous playing will spread to new players.

Did any of you actually Say anything to let her know what she was doing and that you saw it ????

Yes, she even came into vent but did not say anything. Then we let her know that we knew it was her as she did not respond, in vent and on the server.

otodbattlecommander@gmail.com

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Posted : 11/09/2009 7:19 pm
(@abberation)
Noble Member

Concrete wrote: [quote=*DARKMATTER*][quote=Abberation]Personally after tonight Im convinced a perma ban would have been the way to go. Tommy, Wave, Concrete, Shoot2kill and I were all on when she was playing as SAM. And more than a handful of times did she assault and revenge. People said pointed it out but it didnt stop. She will never stop and her cancerous playing will spread to new players.

Did any of you actually Say anything to let her know what she was doing and that you saw it ????

Yes, she even came into vent but did not say anything. Then we let her know that we knew it was her as she did not respond, in vent and on the server.

Yup. Cant remember if it was Tommy or Wave who said something to her when she assaulted them though.

And no I didn't note the time but it was on SUF-Shrapnel Bay

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Posted : 12/09/2009 3:28 am
(@dou-yo-mama)
Member Admin

The purpose of noting the where, when, and why is to keep the membership who may not have contact with Lovely informed regarding her behavior. If the membership doesn't see it first hand or read about it on the forum then they don't know it's actually happening and those of us that complain we want her gone just end up looking like some kind of lynch mob.

mAmA

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Posted : 12/09/2009 6:39 am
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